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By the looks of a random reddit post I stumbled upon, shes dating a 37 year old who I am guessing is Alex and what was the post about? Oh yeah it was him being controlling and treating her like shit lol.

I (20f) have been dating my bf (37m) since around last August. We’ve been in the same online friends group for a while and last year started dating, we’ve met up a few times already and he is visiting again soon. Last week it was my friend’s birthday and we went to spoons (uk pub, cheap drinks and food) and then some club after, nothing really crazy it was a small group of us girls and it wasn’t a late night. For context none of my friends are heavy drinkers, I’ve drank before but only been drunk maybe a handful of times. My bf knows I’m not too fussed about drinking and he’s said before he likes that I don’t like drinking. Although I never said I don’t like it, I just don’t really drink or get drunk often. I told my bf I’d be going out for my friend’s birthday a few days before and when I told him we’d be going to the pub and maybe a club after he kinda got upset and wanted me to promise I wouldn’t drink. This kinda threw me off since he drinks with his friends most weekends, or when we’re on call I’ll usually hear him opening a can of something. And also the legal age here for drinking is 18. I said it wouldn’t be like a big night out, it was just going to be a few drinks but he really wasn’t happy about me wanting to drink and said that if I lived with him I wouldn’t even be allowed to legally drink yet, which I thought was a stupid argument since I’m in the UK, not America. I asked him why he didn’t want me to drink, if it was a trust thing, even though I’ve never given him a reason to not trust me, and he said it wasn’t anything to do with that but he just wanted my first big night out to be with him when he visits again, which again made no sense to me since I HAVE drank before (mainly before we were together). I don’t know if he thought it was going to be some big, crazy night out where we were all going to get really drunk but it wasn’t and I explained that to him and he still kept going back and forth how he didn’t like the idea of me drinking heavily when I wasn’t even 21 yet. Eventually I just promised to him that I wouldn’t drink and would probably go home early and call him after. I did end up having a few drinks, but I didn’t get that drunk. I even ended the night early as my friends went to another club after the first one. The next day my bf asked me if I had drank and I didn’t want to lie to him but I also had already promised him I wouldn’t drink so I told him I only had two and he got pissed. He said I was a liar and selfish for promising something that was important to him and that he’s debating whether he should even come visit anymore. I do feel bad for promising I wouldn’t drink and then drinking anyways but to me it just felt like such a stupid thing to make such a big deal over. He’s been really dry over text the past few days and I don’t know what I’m supposed to do.
TLDR she went to a birthday party and he told her not to drink but wouldnt explain why and then eventually she ended up drinking so the next day he called her a selfish liar and guilt tripped her saying he might not visit her and started ignoring her.
 
I don't think it's Alex tbh I don't think he's that old and he be fucking a bunch of other girls for his OF. Who knows tho?
 
Even if it’s not him he’s just a massive weirdo anyway. Legit half of his DM’s and posts on onlyfans recently is him wingeing and outright trying to pull some manipulation cos people aren’t buying his not even mid content

If it is him I would not be surprised at all
 
I thought that but the same would be said about her? She’s dating someone and fucking him.

Also she posted that directly before he visited her.
 
Are we sure that’s her? Didn’t she spend like the last two years always sloppy drunk hooking up with dudes? I feel like only recently she’s calmed down with that. Which I guess lines up with “dating since last August” is there a Reddit account of hers that I don’t know about?
 
He used to be "jade's kitten" in her discord so ig it wouldn't be too surprising
 
She made it not too long ago and doesn’t really post on it much. Her posts are hidden on it and she deleted the post since every single comment was telling her to leave her bf and that he’s controlling.
 
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