I find it equally odd that some dudes are so hung up on these type of call outs. They treat it like it’s a duty, but what’s the benefit to them? Maybe someone can point out whatever I’m missing.
For me, it’s simple: the ends justify the means. As long as I’m seeing ass, whatever they need to tell themselves/pretend to get there doesn’t bother me.
There are others, however, who seem to get a harder dick from the call out/confrontation than seeing the goods themselves. I’ve just not seen someone try to articulate why that’s so important to them.
(Before some dipshit claims that I’m white-knighting or simping for my queen or whatever the fuck, read what I wrote again. I’m asking about internal motivations/reward, not scolding anyone or telling them to stop because it effects her. I’m not even in her chat, what I want to see ends up here.)