I'm honestly guessing the reason for her getting sluttier is because she needs the cash since she's moving out with her BF. On the topic of her BF, the dude I know who does the best with girls looks a lot like her BF, except he's not Asian but they have the exact same look and shape. My buddy is funny in a dumbass sort of way, and super outgoing and does pull chicks like her often so I'm not surprised. Trust me when I say, if you're an average looking dude, the right look will push you into above average and then humor and confidence will carry you the rest of the way.