Yes but I'd try to actually find the scene (they recently removed it) and watch it if you haven't. They make it sound like she was screaming "No don't do that" when it was frankly quite a weak signal. He was on top of her and she very lightly taps his hand literally seconds after telling him to fuck her harder. If you're looking specifically for the event, its pretty easy to notice, but without the context or prior knowledge of it, you wouldn't have even noticed it.
I've heard other bad experiences women have had with him but I've also heard the opposite. I've even seen other scenes of his where the woman CLEARLY COMMUNICATES that he's too much and he backs off without a fuss. I think the issue he has is poor communication with some people, and frankly its not only him that's bad at communicating in most of his controversial scenes.
Then again, I'm not omniscient or know every controversy/allegation he has, maybe I'm missing a big one, but from what I've heard the hate is a little out of proportion.