I was honestly thinking the same thing. I think a lot of this comes down to how isolated most men are now. When a man doesnt have real connections, they’ll latch onto whatever fills the gap, and for a lot of guys that’s a content creator. Porn used to be a side thing, something that added to your life. Now a lot of men are using it as their main source of intimacy and companionship, in place of the real relationships they should be building.
That’s the messed-up/semi-predatory part about OnlyFans. It sells the feeling of a relationship, and guys buy it so completely that they get jealous when she dates someone real. like bro, She doesn’t know you exist. She’s not your ex, she’s not your girlfriend, she’s not even a friend. You’re mad at a stranger for living her life.
And be honest with yourself: even if you met her in real life, she wouldn’t even look your way let alone date you. The “I love anime, cosplay, and nerdy guys” thing that alot of these OF girls do is a marketing angle, a persona designed for a lonely audience, and plenty of guys fall for it. Offline, she’d be with the guy who looks like a Chad. And a lot of subscribers probably don’t realize the “her” they’re chatting with is often some Indian guy in the slums a mumbai working off a script.
Worse part is that this only gets worse. More men will sink further into it, hoping it fixes something inside them that it was never going to fix. That’s a downward spiral, and it’s hard to see it turning around.