Definitely not gay but she may be Bi, I have no idea on that one.
She had a series on her other channel where she documented her "travels" around America, where she had to delete certain videos or re-up after editing where she accidentally shows the guy she's with.
Not that we had to see/hear because she was always in a muscle car, lol. Like...a stereotype mid-life crisis car. She was obviously always with an older man.
About 3 months after she posts a video she then deleted on her ASMR channel where she's actually crying, talking about missing "him" etc.
Also, she had old Instagram posts about her ex BF.
She's at the very least a sugar baby (or was) and at least pretending to be straight but likely is.