Bruh, she was at her peak in late 2024 when she was averaging 3K+ viewers consistently, she had become a GSupps owner, was featured at every VTuber-affiliated con, had Nano gaslit and locked in as her preferential treatment artist and rigger, had a massive Discord server, and, she was still with her girliepops. After fucking Bao, Numi, Nano, and the rest of her friends over, she's only been declining, especially after her Fansly content was just the epitome of mid AF and she made it sub-only.
Sinder had EVERY opportunity to still be able to salvage her career and maintain some semblance of a community and following, and, she fumbled hardcore every single time b/c of her narcissistic personality, ego, and her pride. Here's how she could've salvaged everything:
- Fuck the stupid-ass 1000 Google Dockie; make it 5-10 pages, own up to your bullshit, sincerely apologize to all of your friends and those involved, promise to seek therapy, kick Red to the curb, become a better person, and, reevaluate your life
- Personally apologize both in DMs and VCs to all of your past friends involved and eat fucking crow and let them vent and be honest with you and just take it without getting defensive and lashing out
- When Lily reached out to you at the end of last year, let her say her piece, own up to your mistakes and faults, and, apologize to Lily
- Make a public stream apology that addressed everybody involved, sincerely and egregiously apologize to your community, your mods, admins, and promise to be better and FUCKING OWN IT!
- Either follow suit with what Bao, Kerogaki, Alie Kerser, Mel, and Silver did with Fansly, or, fuck off and not do it. Either you full-send it and own it, or, not do it at all
I've heard a few other VTuber's mention this notion beforehand, and, I find it so pretentiously delusional. I get RPing as a character and playing it up as a persona or version of yourself within the space. But, for fuck's sake, ya'll are grown-ass adult women, ya'll are pushing 30 or past it; GROW. THE. FUCK. UP! If you're so mentally ill and delulu, where, you feel like a FICTIONAL ANIME CHARACTER has as much sentience as you do as a person, stop it, get some help. Giving actual moralities and ethics to a fictional character, who is a representation of yourself, is insane. I already find VTuber's attempting to gatekeep their model being lewded and NSFW'd cringe as fuck, but, going to that level is just an actual mental illness.