Interesting. I have done customs with her as well. In one she threw in things that I didn't request, but they were very minor, and I feel like they were to play up to her audiences who are "into" different kinks like that. They were very minor, and didn't kill the overall vibe though. In another vid she really took the idea/theme I had and ran with something I didn't request but it really went above and beyond. It was unexpected, but not unwelcome, and it totally played into the theme of the vid. I guess I got lucky in that what she did worked for me and didn't veer into kink/fetish stuff I didn't want/ask for. I guess what I'm trying to say is that spontineity can be a blessing or a curse, but it sounds more like she didn't do something you explicitly asked for and that sucks. Sorry man.