Exactly. Her collabs show what she is capable of. Imagine her pumping out one or two collabs a month, she'd be in a completely different place in the industry.
I understand girls that exclusively shoot with their boyfriend/husband. It's limiting their potential but if her partner isn't cool with sharing his girl, it is what it is. But if you already opened up the relationship and had some collabs with professional porn actors, just keep doing the collabs and limit the exposure of the boyfriend/husband who is clearly not suited for this line of work.