Yeah, I don't see her being anywhere near some demented goonette. Considering she at least occasionally reads romance novels (which women romance is fucking hilarious to read) and made comments like I mentioned.
At most she's a bean flicker and mild vibrator/dildo user. She doesn't seem the type to use massive dildos, machine assisted devices/fake male lower body bits or other depraved stuff.
Though given that thing her husband mentioned with massaging an angel's wings. I wonder if she's into male foreplay. Sensual touching, things like footjobs or if she's super vanilla.
But regardless how he gets it, her husband is a lucky son of a bitch.