Because middle is mediocre? What you might rather be looking for is nuanced.
Shae is a closeted exhibitionist compared with other hot Instagramers. But an amateur one compared with other NSFW platform creators. It is what it is.
As for the simping, Shae is respectful and kind with her treatment compared with most other creators, so she gets the same in turn. She gets appreciation back and in a very predictably human fashion the cynics get shamed. Few creators get this level of respect and loyalty, because most of them get agencies who bait, overpromise, gaslight, bitch and pressure fans.