I still do feel that even with trust, few bonds just can't withstand cuckoldry. For something like Hotwifing to be successful both the hubby and wife have to be of a certain type. I'll explain from 2 examples:
Hotwife brooke blaze : She recently got married to Mr Blaze and he forced her into the lifestyle. She has no liking of her own, no opinions basically no freedom. Mr Blaze has a business and seeing his car collection he is a very rich guy, so she is with him for the money and to provide a good lifestyle to her kids. She used to work before now she doesn't which further proves this. He maintains control over practically all her actions, she repeats whatever he says down to every last word. She has to get high(smoke joints, drink a lot, etc.) before n after doing the vids. Exploiting her weakness, she is bound to obey him and is just an extension of him like a limb of his fantasies, a robot complying with whatever he comes up with. So type-1 hubby always in control , wife does the lifestyle on his command only and in someway dependent on hubby, she does not like the sex specifically she does the intercourse to please hubby.
Similar case was Allegra Cole where she complied with her ex-hubby as long as he provided for her family, only when he wanted kids from other women she divorced him. Same for Seductive Hotwife , only when her hubby wanted to have intercourse with other women she divorced him , prolly cuz she felt he would eventually replace her. Both of them stopped posting and living in the lifestyle after their spouses left.
Blonde62queen : She and her hubby were married for 30 years, so their relationship was more than stable. Her hubby convinced her to become a hotwife. They had even named a bbc dildo as "Mr Marcus" which would be their bull. He took care of all the necessary actions like constantly changing bulls, being present, having multiple partners but she was not dependent on him. She also started enjoying the bulls , liking the lifestyle.The sexual prowess of the bull impresses her and she sort of develops this reverence for the bull in her subconscious. Once this happens , wife slowly overtime stops respecting the hubby. So type-2 wife is independent or atleast not controlled by hubby, likes sex so develops an affinity towards bulls who sexualy stimulate her, she might not have liked sex before but now she likes it so she believes she has evolved and that being so sexual is her true nature and her liking the bull is just a result of her nature. Overtime this affinity develops into a deep bond where the wife becomes dependent on the bull for excitement or a dopamine release.
Freya, Hotwife Annabell, sexxxysoccermom, goodmombadhabit, etc. are all examples of this.
The idea of cucks being weak men who sexualise their pathetic nature is wrong,I believe they r overstimulated men who jerk off a lot so sex becomes an act instead of a way to express intimacy. Most of them get influenced by specific porn vids like Mr Blaze is influenced from JanB hotwife, Seductive Hotwife and Janet Mason's hubby get off the whole MILF dynamic. The hubby completely sexualises the wife as a whore ( wife being sexually prolific is what turns them on) from so much porn viewing and fantasizing, so most of them want the wife to "cheat" on them behind their back. This step further breaks down their bond as wife gains more independence. Time spent alone with the bull at this point further deepens their bond and makes her attached to him. Type-1 somewhat survives but type-2 marriages break down from this point onwards I feel.
Freya is type-2 and has clearly crossed this point in their relationship, thus her deteriorating marriage.
Grace71hotwife (hotwife grace from cuiogeo) is also a type-2 wife, although they dont live the lifestyle 24/7 and their introduction to lifestyle is at nascent stages so their bond is still there. But from the latest cuiogeo vid u can clearly see she has started liking the lifestyle now n was also flirting with cuiogeo. Earlier she used to say she did the lifestyle on her hubby's wishes, she didn't (prolly still doesn't) like pegging her hubby ,her casual interaction with the bulls or cuio was very less in the earlier vids but now she is more than comfortable with cuiogeo. In the last vid she was praising his sexual prowess, also her reaction when hubby is penetrating her is too casual which shows she is not that passionate with him. The seeds for separation has been planted , just they have not grown enough for her to make someone her bf and divorce her hubby. Them leading a Femdom lifestyle almost 24/7 and humiliating n caging hubby also adds to the disaster. She is practicing submission with cuio so her bond will only deepen, her hubby also wants a long-term bf for her which is a ticking timebomb for their marriage. They r also walking the same road as Freya I believe.
This is just my hypothesis tell me what u guys think about this topic.