Nah, you’re hitting some points but missing the biggest one. No one should be blamed for being abused; it happens across every demographic. But let’s be real the point about 'white worship' is a factor here.If he were any other minority, people would have flagged his behavior as dangerous a long time ago,labeled a 'thug' or 'abusive' immediately.Because he’s a white 'crypto bro/finance chud' type, people give him a pass.People will stay hating on Black/Latino men or other minorities for way less, but because of his background , they let this slide as 'playful banter' until it's too late. I think my ppoint is we need to stop victim-blaming and start looking at why society gives certain guys a free pass to be toxic just because of our implicit bias. This bias appears in our dating life.