You're confusing snark with annoyance. And I'm not sure why you'd assume this, but you're assuming someone who has watched a lot of Eva doesn't understand the concept, which wouldn't make sense. maybe It's my fault for not explaining thoroughly.
I'm asking if it would be more of a turn on to imagine being in the role of a confident alpha male with Eva for a change or at least in a playful power struggle, instead of her pathetic sub, sucking another dude's cock while she doesn't know you exist. Either way, she doesn't know we freeloaders exist, so wouldn't it be more enjoyable to do something pleasurable rather than disgusting? It's a personal preference question about self-confidence, not a question requesting help understanding definitions. Does that make sense?
If this is your personal answer, then I respect your personal preference: