With sincerity, I think you should stop putting her (or just women, in general) on a pedestal. If for nothing else, let it be because there are many, many women out there like Ella. To your comment "You’d all break down into a fetal position", I vehemently hate, HATE, comments like "touch grass" or "go outside"... but if you live in or near any major city, just take a trip and walk around a mall, public market, busy plaza, etc. and you'll see a handful if not dozens of women like "prime" Ella any day of the week. Do you break down into the fetal position when one of them glances at you? Of course you don't. You might get do a double take, get flustered, or even pop a boner, but then you'd move on.
Hell, I saw two like her last Tuesday at a fucking Whole Foods of all places. One of them stood right next to me (gasp) at the deli and even glanced at my fat ass face, yet I somehow managed to survive without going into the fetal position.