Have you ever had a job where you deal with repeat clients/customers? I assume they feel a similar way to their simps as i do to clients, some are pleasant and easy to deal with, others are a pain in the ass. None are real friends, but i would not generally consider them suckers by virtue of needing my services. It might even be her chatting, but a simp is getting a heavily filtered version, and when she closes the chat, she thinks about her simps about as much i think about clients when im off the clock, i dont.