Very oversimplified tl;dr before I make a larger summary:
OP finds Cait in 2022, starts supporting her through fanart and memes etc. He eventually gets friendly with her, gets modded on discord and youtube. Discord server becomes toxic, OP sees one dude getting bullied, OP sticks up for this dude, Cait unmods him, after asking for reasons why, Cait mutes/unmods/bans him off all her socials and deletes all his art. OP feels as though she nurtures parasocial relationships to use her fans and then dispose of them afterwards.
Larger summary:
Okay now to sum up the reddit post (in a more impartial way so that you can make up your own minds, this is also 100% his experience, I have no knowledge of what went down personally):
This dude discovered her around 2022 and started making edits/memes/fanart, he says he always commented on her posts and eventually Dm'd. He was then made a mod of her youtube streams, she would shout him out on said streams. She didn't seem to know how to handle fans like this and apparently would be very friendly to him; he says that he's not normally one for parasocial relationships, but she was always super nice and talkative to him, and so he saw them as online friends.
He shared screenshots of some of these convos in the google doc, just FYI (she really should not have been so friendly with fans, man or woman, it just feeds into their egos and eventually becomes a problem).
after a few months she opened the discord server, was chill initially, and the guy would eventually become a mod for the discord, he was apparently going through a tough time during this, so the discord server sort of became his safe haven.
Then it went downhill, basically became an echo chamber according to this dude, where if you didn't agree with Cait 100% you were targetted by her rabid fanbase, and apparently Cait herself would be quite passive aggressive with those who disagreed with her. Simps would post youtube comments of folks who weren't being positive and they would go out and attack them. To which Cait would like the posts the simps did.
One dude on the server who apparently had autism was talking about s*icide to which the simps would repeat in unison "do it" and "no balls" (screenshot of this on the doc) and then the autistic guy was banned on the server by an admin who was an IRL friend of caits. The poster swooped in and got him unbanned (after dming him privately, again screenshots of this on the doc) though this autistic person is now missing and deleted his discord.
Shit got worse on the server and they all started constantly praising Cait (which she liked those comments apparently), OP said it became a place of worship. OP says he tried to remain neutral out of respect of Cait, but didn't like any of it, and that some of the older members started leaving and telling him they didn't like how toxic it became and all the bullying etc. (which is claimed Cait was apart of)
One day, OP sees a fight happen between 1 guy who hates how the server has become, and "5 or 6 others" including Cait. OP says he tried to defuse the situation by politely asking them to calm down, though the screenshot he provides shows that he was trying to defend the guy who was getting ganged up on by trying to be a middleman. OP apparently missed when Cait said "anymore commentary will result in a ban" as it was quite hectic at the time (screenshot in the doc makes this make more sense), and so OP coming in to defend this guy ended up getting him banned, though others who also ignored her warning never got banned (OP says its because they were on her side)
This is when the voice message that artofitall provided comes in.
Next bit is a little hard to explain, but he essentially asks her why he got banned, to which she replied with accusations saying that he was aggressive to others and that he shouldn't have talked to other members (OP clarifies and says he made some friends in the server which Cait took as him talking behind her back) and also claimed that he wasn't the one who reached out to the autistic guy (though OP provides screenshots showing he did), among other things. OP was confused and so asked why she's being mean to him all of the sudden but then timezone differences got in the way of him answering her reply and so she perma-unmods him. But then proceeds to mute him on insta and discord, unmods him on youtube, deleted all his art from her socials, deleted all the emotes he made for the discord.
He says goodbye to everyone on discord, to which Cait then jumps in and asks for a mod replacement. OP was hurt given all the time he spent on the community and the artwork etc. OP felt used and felt like he lost an entire community etc etc.
Some of his friends (one mod aswell) tried to talk to Cait about letting him back in, but she ignored them.
OP said that the server is shutdown now due to "moderation issues", and said his reasoning for making the post was to counter her image of "spreading positivity" which he and others knew was a mask and that shes actually a very nasty person irl.
OP also leaves a message for cait: 'don't parasocial relationship bait people for personal gain and use them as disposable products you get rid of the moment they don't cooperate as intended. To you, we might just be a number in your sub count, but we're all real people, and your actions make an impact on people. Especially when you hype someone up, only to break them down afterwards.'