You telling me that seeing a girl overcome with lust doing the dirty to herself isn't hot and you'd rather watch some guy do what you wish you were doing instead?
So the guy is load-bearing to your enjoyment of the porn?
I'd rather watch some chick drill herself until its creamy than try to peek around a dude like a guy with a warrant out peeking thru the blinds. Like I said, I have some exceptions. In professional stuff, Karlee Grey is my goat and the bangbus one she did is a top 10 of all time. But like how people like pov stuff for a sense of immersion, I prefer no guy in the equation so its vaguely like a hot chick sending you stuff. Less of a leap in imagination, I guess?