I don't understand how you can get fisted by your wife, getting pegged by 13 inchers dildos. All this while wearing women attires and make up
And still pretend... I'm still straight
Shit is the same as " balls don't touch no homo "
I think their strategy was, deterrence against chasers and serial dick pics sender mixed with denials.
Mind you, there's crossdresser who are straight and don't slut themselves out.
They do it for the love of the garment and/or the fantasy of feminity.
Otherwise, yeah most of us are or were at some point in denial.
This is just my experience as an Bi male openly crossdresser with sex working experience
Cheers